How to be Attractive 101:
As a woman, it’s really not hard knowing how to be attractive to men when you think about it. Chances are, you are probably already doing a lot of these things whether you realize it or not. We’re talking about the little everyday things girls do, that drive men absolutely CRAZY!
There are countless things that push a guy’s “hot” buttons and turn him on instantly. Some girls have it down cold; they know how to be attractive, and love having their men all dreamy eyed for them. Some women aren’t so keen on how to be attractive to men.
Either way, you are probably already scoring high in a number of different ways, even if you’re not aware of it.
Forget about being the next Beyonce’ or Angelina; just the common things you do are sending him subconscious signals that make you a knockout bombshell in his eyes, and driving him wild!
How to Be Attractive (straight from the mouths of other women)
It’s really not rocket science, guys LOVE the natural things you do, and the person you are. There’s not a whole lot required. But it’s great to be aware of them.
Here’s a list of 43 things women do, that make them irresistible to men:
1. Sparkly Eyes: No guy can resist gazing into a pair of sparkling eyes when talking to you.
2. Humor: It gets a man giddy inside when they meet a girl with a sense of humor.
3. Caressing Their Hair: Men feel desired when you play with their hair.
4. Playing Video Games: They think you’re awesome and fun when you’ll get down on games.
5. Snuggly Clothes: Guys think you’re adorable in pajama pants and a tank top.
6. Smelling Good: It doesn’t even need to be perfume, they love the fresh smell of your hair after you wash it.
7. Cooking for Him: No need to be a master chef; men deeply appreciate when a woman cooks him a meal.
8. Into Sports: He thinks you’re way cool and cute, if you’re even remotely into sports.
9. Playfulness: Men can’t resist a fun loving girl, that has a bit of a silly and playful side to her.
If you’ve had any doubts previously; you probably already do a good number of these things every day. And know how to be attractive pretty bloody well. You sly fox you… Now here’s some more fashion statements that guys find attractive.
10. Yoga Pants: No if’s, and’s, or but’s about it… Just put on your yoga pants, you’ll make his head spin every time.
11. Pony Tails: Guys like it when you wear your hair up too; it shows your face really well.
12. Oversized Sweatshirts: Wearing big sweaters looks cute to guys. They show that you’re comfortable and confident. Especially if your sweater shows off a little shoulder.
13. Anything Lacy: Men just love anything lacy that shows some skin. The decorative designs make you look more appealing as well.
14. Lingerie: There’s no denying it; any guy go’s crazy for lingerie, period.
15. Sun Dresses: Among the many hot things you wear, one of their biggest turn-ons is a sun dress. Men love it because it amplifies your feminine beauty and shows off your legs.
16. Baseball Hats: You get 10 points for cuteness for wearing a baseball cap. You also look like a really cool girl that guys want to hang with.
17. Anything Backless: One of the things that guys love to see is the smooth lines of your back. Wearing anything showing it off is super sexy.
18. Jerseys: Have a favorite sports team? Show a little spirit; wearing a jersey of your favorite team makes you a rock star to them. They ‘ll think you’re fun to hang out with, and they’re probably right.
19. Jeans and a Tank: Believe it or not, this look is really attractive to men. It shows them that you’re down to earth and comfortable. Wear jean shorts or a jean skirt, and you’ll really drive the men crazy!
20. Gym Wear: Oh… how a man loves to see how you look when you work out. Be it if you are running out doors, or if in a gym. He go’s crazy for those spandex shorts.
Knowing how to be attractive to the opposite sex isn’t too hard after all, is it? If more women knew just how beautiful men thought they really were, they would be a lot less critical of themselves. And the list continues…
21. Eye Contact: Regular eye contact with a man during conversation is a huge turn on for them. It helps build a connection, and lets him see the real beauty of your spirit.
22. Laughing (at their jokes): Hearing your laugh when they say something funny gets men excited. It caters to his ego, letting him know you’re into him; all men love it.
23. High Pitch Voice: Men are hard wired to be attracted to a women’s voice when it’s higher pitched. You don’t have to try to do this, your voice rises naturally when a guy sparks your interest.
24. A Good Heart: Guys naturally love a girl with a warm heart and a sweet demeanor. It signifies compassion and being very loving (of course, lots of guys dig a little bit of cute and sassy mixed in there too).
25. Head Tilt: Men are wired to love when you’re looking up at them at a slight angle with some eye contact.
26. Your Curves: Men by instinct,are very attracted to the curve ratio of a woman’s body; especially your hips.
27. Aged: Guys don’t just love younger girls, most men have acquired a taste for older women (aged, like fine wine). A lot of men find an older woman’s maturity level, confidence, and experience very sexy.
28. Adventurous: just like sports, video games, and baseball hats; Most guys think an adventurous girl is a lot of fun. They like that these women are full of life and spontaneous. Guys like a girl that’s down for different activities.
29. Bright Smile: Guys can’t resist a girl with a big genuine bright smile. It’s human psychology, and it’s infectious.
30. A Good Kisser: Everybody has a preference on how they like being kissed; but if you as long as you’re into the kiss, it’s hard to do wrong.
31. Wearing Red: Red is a sleek and seductive color anyways. Throw on a red dress, and you’ll surely drive him mad.
32. Symmetry: Both men and women are instinctively attracted to faces with good symmetry.
33. Confidence: Let’s not forget confidence, it’s something that cannot be faked. One of the universally most attractive things is genuine confidence. It makes all of the above things even more attractive.
There’s even a good number of oddball (and some seemingly gross) things men think are hot. You would never guess it; but guys have been known to think these things are extremely cute. Some of these are lacking grace or considered “unlady like”; but guys seem to love it though. It kind of redefines how to be attractive. Here they are…
34. Burping
35. Clumsiness
36. Strange Talents
37. Eating Like a Trucker (pigging out)
38. Cursing or Talking Dirty
39. Sweating
40. Dirty or Messy Hair
41. A Goofy Laugh
42. Baby Talking to Animals
43. Getting Startled or Scared
Wrap Up:
Honestly, you really can’t do much wrong when you want look good and appeal to men. When it comes to fashion, guys like most girl get ups for different reasons.
Whether you’re feeling the classic sun dress look, a pair of classy lace pants, or if you just want to be comfortable and wear a tank with some jeans or yoga pants. There are so many versatile things guys love about the way you look; it’s very hard to be unappealing to men.
Mostly, they like the way YOU look in it. It’s not the outfit, it’s the girl in it. You make the outfit look good more than it makes you look good.
And remember girls, anything looks good on you when you wear it with some confidence. That stands whether you know really well how to be attractive or not. Just being comfortable in your own skin speaks volumes to guys. Let the real you shine through, and he’ll be intrigued.
